Right person, Wrong time!
and how you're gonna love them always!
Right person, wrong time is a lie that we tell ourselves to ease the pain of rejection. It’s easy to swallow the pain when we think the universe is being rude to us. But my mind always says that, “ you would get ready for the person you love.” You would set everything up to keep them in your life. No ifs, no buts. If it were the right person, you would have ended up together, no matter what!
But, does the heart agree with what the mind already knows? I am not sure. I have been on this road multiple times, and every time a person hasn’t made an effort to keep me in their life, it has left me scarred. I think I’ve always had problems with letting stuff go. When it’s not right for me, I’ll force it into being something that works, only to understand that it hurts more to stay.
And then you’ll never understand what you should do with the love you had for them, the little details you memorised of how they like their coffee, how they would write the code, their birthdays, and suddenly it also becomes awkward with all the mutual friends you have known because of them. You ask yourself questions about whether they feel the same way. You want them to remember it all, but also, it feels too much to ask for! And no matter how many years, how many lovers go by, you still think of them, and the wound still hurts.
Nostalgia is a killer, and our exes are no exception. It’s sad when love goes, you have to announce a retirement for the friendship as well. And you don’t notice the feeling of hatred towards them either. You can’t convince yourself you hate them, you just have to be uncomfortable for a while, and each day you’ll think of them less, and one day you will wake up, and the ache in your chest will be gone.
The hurt only says that what you once had was meaningful. And you will always love them platonically, from a distance.
